Love Your Life

Life is a wonderful miracle. It is not only the reason that we are alive, but also lets us to stay alive and in this fantastic world, letting us experience what we never experienced and feeled before. Everybody should cherish it and live their life to the fullest. Only by then, they can fulfil the purpose of being alive.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Weddings

                Weddings are something that is sacred and remarkable. As we glanced back at history, setting our visions farer and further into the past, where humans were first created and started their life in this tremendously beautiful sphere scattered with mind-soaring oceans, sky-scraping mountains and vivid yet mythical groves of abundant wildlife, there was nothing more everlasting like the bond of wedding that is responsible for joining 2 souls from different lives and pathways. Wedding is indeed a wonderful ceremony practised by humans from the past until now.

                According to the bible, when god himself had created the world, he had filled the world with different types of beings that roamed the seas and the lands. His most proud and majestic creation is human. His reflection in which he brought to life from ashes and dusts were Adam and Eve. However, due to Adam and Eve’s treachery of stealing the fruit from the Tree of Wisdom, god had banished both of them from eternal life in his realm and left them to survive at a world we called today as Earth, with a maximum lifespan of a century old. Both of them then came together by the bonds of marriage under the witness of god himself. The Cave drawings also depict the legend about the origin of weddings and its creator, Nu Wa. Nu Wa is the ancient goddess of creation and fertility. She was regarded as a half-human, half-snake deity that moulded man from clay and repaired the leakage of the sky by using mystical stones of different colours. Legends said that, she had a brother called Fu Xi that had the same looks as her. Both of them are also lovers. They became husband and wife after making a wow under the witness of the sky and the earth which agree in their relationship. Nu Wa then created the system that join different men and women from different families. She herself became the first person in history to infatuate men and women to become husband and wife. The system is what we called today, as wedding.

                Three months ago, I had witnessed a wedding ceremony of my cousin. She was the eldest daughter of one of my aunts and she had finally lay her arms at her dearly husband after thousands of dating and spending numerous years with her soul mate. In between that, they seldom turn away from each other and have cold fights. Instead of this, they become closer and understand more about each other after each argument. How romantic! This final resort of true love will never cease nor ebb and able to withstand the cruel tests of time. Well done cousin, you finally found your cup of tea! I wish you all the best.

                   Weddings are also a great challenge for lovers apart who wished to live together under a family. The couple must learn to be considerate and tolerant upon each other. They should not be selfish and care about their own needs. In contrary, they should always do their very best to fulfil their partner’s needs and take care of the other partner’s feelings and requirements. They should not even break their oath swooned to each other. If there existed a slight betrayal and misjudgement, the bonds between the two individuals are easily being shattered. Hence, always remember to be true and sincere to your soul mate. A good selection of your lifetime partner is essential to obtain an everlasting marriage. This is my word of advice for the new couples who wanted to get married. And, for the new married couples, I hope that your marriage goes well. That’s all for this time, bye.

黄昏

花中仙子
穿着白衣裳
绿野中游荡
洁白双翼
不停招展
鼓励拍掌
花儿茁壮成长

天空 锭放
橘红光芒
金黄斑斓
归巢鸦雀
呼叫声
不绝于耳
告诉我
你的降临

夕阳下
小草 比翡翠还翠绿
花儿 比红宝石还红
那是凤凰的落翼
那是落暮的火焰
美丽 和谐
热情 豪放
拼出
大自然的完美

你是
永恒的美
千古不锤
的灿烂

Time

Time flies… Indeed, time is something that is not permanent and everlasting like the wind that blows from all directions, the sky that remains hanging on the top for billions of years, nor the sea that fills the empty spaces of this gigantic hydrosphere – earth for thousands of decades before the existence of any living things. It is so valuable, that nothing can be done to retrieve time from the past or trade time with any of your fortunes as well as your properties. Because of this, proper time management is required to perform your everyday routines properly in a systematic order.
Before learning about how to manage your time, one should have the awareness of the infinite value of time. One must bear in mind that the past cannot be brought back by any ways. Once gone, it is gone, forever. As a reminder, please do not waste your time in doing things that are less beneficial to you, for it might lessen your time in doing other things in the same time. Moreover, you must also plan your own time schedule to keep track of your time. Planning a suitable time schedule can also enable you to evaluate and analyse your time usage properly and systematically for a selected period of time.
Furthermore, you can also save your time by doing great things everyday. Do feel free to fill your days of shine and glory with speckles of wonderful memories and experiences that will last a living. For example, you can go scuba diving in the Great Barrier Reef in Australia, experience bridge jumping or venture into the deepest parts of the Savannah for a splendid excursion. You will feel that your days will be meaningful no matter how short it is.
Last but not least, find for yourself a hobby or an interest. This is an awesome idea and is extremely great in spending your time. Contribute a portion of your time every week to be spent in doing activities regarding your hobby or your interest. You will learn many different things from your hobby or your interests. This will also enable you to make friends with other people who have the same interests like you. Time should be spent wisely. It should not be wasted as it was more precious than pure gold. Therefore, let us start spending our glorious moments with utmost gratitude and rational.

欣赏

欣赏是一门深奥的学问.要知道,不是每个人都懂得如何去欣赏别人.欣赏需要好多的容忍及耐心,才能看到那隐藏中的不平凡价值.懂得欣赏的人懂得看到一件事物的美好.不管一个事情有多么的糟糕,或者是多么的美妙,他们都懂得如何理知地去分析.从分析中,他们懂得发觉自己和别人的潜能和优点.

懂得欣赏的人也懂得赞美,甚至是鼓励别人.换句话说,欣赏是一种至高无上的赞美.这是因为欣赏可以让一个人觉得自己很特别.被欣赏的人会觉得自己很高贵,因为他值得被别人批评和看好.欣赏也是一种不直接的鼓励.它是一股极大的推动力,可以提高一个人的自信心.一个人一旦有了自信,无论做起任何事,也不会感到畏惧.不管遇到的是什么困难,他们也能够从容不迫的去面对,并冷静地去对症下药,将困难解决.多亏了欣赏,害羞也不会成了他们的心里障碍.

懂得欣赏就等于懂得为别人和自己鼓掌.学会欣赏的人清楚地知道活在这个世界上是一件多么快乐的事.生命的美妙就在于欣赏. 他们领悟到,每个小小的细节都包涵着大大的意义.许许多多美丽的事物无时无刻都在发生, 并等待着我们去感受,去体会.可惜的是, 每天忙碌的我们不曾抽空时间把自己的脚步放缓,并用心体会.相反的,我们却把这些小小的细节忽略了.从而,使到我们失去了生活上的这些美好,成为了生活中的奴隶.

懂得欣赏会使到我们自己变得更加活泼,开朗,心情也变得特别愉快,因为我们懂得看开,懂得享受,最重要的是:我们懂得感恩.其实,每个人都可以被欣赏,同时也可以学会如何的去欣赏.这是因为每个人都是独一无二的.每个人都有自己独特的一面和自己的风格.因此,亲爱的同学们,别忘了从今日起开始欣赏自己身边的每个人吧.

捉迷藏

追逐
追逐
到底
你躲到了那里?
寻找
寻找
你的踪迹

失去的美好
隐藏起来了
怎么找
怎么找
也找不到
捉到的却是 成长

奔跑
奔跑
童年
离我越来越远
越来越模糊
越来越渺小
最终
淡化

消失